I agree with what has already been said...very sound advise for a newbie....something you might also do is read thru the Dom personal adds....see what moves you...contact them and ask questions....anyone worth knowing will happily answer the best they can ....worst thing is you make new friends..... and there is always the chat room hehe if it gets too hectic just listen and learn...you'll find a bunch of friendly people in here....Be safe and Play well