The BDSM Checklist, such as the one on the Bondage.com (once, a very free communication environment back in 2000 when I signed up; rather f-ing useless now for meeting others unless you go premium) provides the individual with a great many topics that may provoke highly contemplative, straightforward, and, as I have just now discovered, opinions that differ vastly and dynamically as altered throughout the passage of time..

Enough about me; I digress..

I cannot condone sending an uninitiated individual to delve into the plethora of confusing topics within these checklists as a means of becoming more conversant.. Words like "Acrotomophilia: arousal in connection with amputees" and "Agalmatophilia: arousal in connection with statues" will offer more questions than answers at this stage..

The best person to teach you about the realm of BDSM is you.. This library is home to thousands of stories that, while it may take you some time to sort through and find those that appeal to your dark side, will help you come to terms with what you already know about yourself, but are unsure about expressing..

My first masturbation thoughts, at 8, involved various power-exchange, humiliation, bondage, and other mentally stimulating depravities.. I never even admitted that I masturbated until I was 19.. That was also when I came to terms with the needs inside me..

So, ask yourself about the secret (mental) masturbation material you use to make yourself cum.. What is going on and what about it makes you cum..?

Really, though.. There are some really arousing stories here.. Something for everyone, with varying degrees of literary competencies..