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And in most States, the State will always do what it feels is in the best interest of the Mnior Child not necessarily what the Mother or Parent want, a childs welfare MUST ALWAYS COME FIRST[/QUOTE]

The problem is that the state will do what someone FEELS - not actually knows nor considers with understanding the complete consequences. Child Social Services are frequently overrun with people who utilize their own emotions to control others with the power of the state. Medications are tested to provide a positive reaction in 70% of the cases utilized. If your child happens to be in the 30% that is not responsive and the State says that the kid gonna take it anyway, tough to be the kid. I've tried meds that work for most people...and I CANNOT tolerate them. So I stop taking them. Thankfully, I'm not a minor who could be forced to take adverse meds. To compound the problem, the courts most times will side with the CSS and the kid and family suffers. In some cases the CSS actually ignores the order of the court without recriminations. But, after all, "its for the children".