Advice to a submissive on proper attitude and thinking.

[silver_one {Leaman}]

I'm trying to gather some information regarding having a word as a safty net or to take your mind to a safe place. Could anyone give me some insight on whether they have and use it, and if not what do you do and how does it feel not having one?
Thanks!

[DontBother]

I'm trying to gather some information regarding having a word as a safty net or to take your mind to a safe place. Could anyone give me some insight on whether they have and use it, and if not what do you do and how does it feel not having one?
Thanks!

You don't have to have safe words. Instead every word can have their original meaning. No means No, please means please and Yes master means Yes master.