Wow, what a way to make a re-emergence..

Purple, in this life we are always for one reason or another, going to have people who either do not understand us, or do not approve of VARIOUS aspects of a life that isn't theirs. I often find it IRONIC, that those that wish to JUDGE others, rarely look in their own backyards, or closets. Your own case, of the friend, who thru her upbringing has PRE PROGRAMMED biases against other lifestyles, is an excellent example. Do these Biases also extend into, say the use of ALCOHOL? Does she have hang ups over "NORMAL SEX"? I am betting if asked, she would freak out over the suggestion that she may have MASTURBATED. Which we all know is a HEALTHY act accepted by the medical and psychological community as NORMAL.

The key question is, was this a person that was important to you?