Does your family know?

[lisa38001]

I am a long time divorced woman, my daughter (adult) know about my fondness for BDSM

[Demon_Goddess_165]

My brother knows.. One day his ex started telling me about how she bought a ball gag so that I wouldn't be able to hear when they were having sex. To which I said "The gag you've got isn't very effective. Next time you might try XYZ." which led to a discusion about all thinks kinky.
I've never come out and said "Hey guess wha; I'm into BDSM." but I'm sure most of my co-workers have figured it out just from things that have been said.

[sub_sequent]

No, nuhuh, no way, nope, nay and a nice Afrikaans word: Nee!!

And looooong may it last.

Although I must say: there is something in my younger brother and his (new) fiances' relationship that rings little bells in my head, little clues. *grins*

But still, its got nothing to do with the family.

[Master Sergeant]

They know we like to play and think we dabble in light stuff. They really have No idea.

[pinky_subby]

I tell my close friends n my sister know what I like by didn't say any word. but I cant tell my parents at all.

[OddCupcake]

No one knows outside of me and the guy I'm with. Honestly mostly because I think they wouldn't understand and/or would call it abuse - and I know my mom would think I'm a freak.

[csr]

For some people I guess their BDSM leanings is quite separate from their sexual life. For me however, the desire to sub is erotic. Since I would never talk to my family about my sex life in any other aspect, I certainly wouldn't talk about this. It's none of their business and I'm sure they wouldn't want to know anyway.