Hi Leo
Thanks for your response.
She did back out pretty quickly. I think she was more shocked than anything else. I've always been the shy, quiet good girl. So this was a huge shock for her. And, she was raised as a very religious Christian. Her parents taught her that anything like bdsm, lesbians, gays, etc, was bad, and should be frowned at. One of the problems is breaking through that barrier, and getting her to listen. I haven't thought about the third party idea, but I definitely will have to think about it and try it.
I'm glad you and your sister worked things out. Its definitely hard for someone who has never thought about the lifestyle to hear about it, much less accept it.
Thanks again for your response. It gave me a lot to think about.
Purple