Walks in and looks up at Oz wondering just how many "friends" he has and blushes.

Rapina it sounds to me like your dominant and you need to have a nice long conversation "out of scene" or during a "timeout" or whatever you wish to call it with no fear of reprisal present and discuss the boundaries and limits of your arrangment with each other for the purposes of clairification.

He can not seriously expect you to just know what he wants as if by magic.

Sometimes a trainned slave can be empathetic and mindful enough to provide the sembalance of just such an illussion for those she serves...but that kind of trainning is not something I can very easily explain in a text alone medium, one has to be able to see and read the one they serve and "know" what the non-verbal comunication is really saying to one...often times the whip will tell one when they have it wrong too...lol.

I can talk about slave heat, "pleasure slave trainning" (how to be a slut that drives men crazy 101), what a slut is or is not until I am blue in the face (we could quite litterally fill a whole thread or two or three with it, heck some may already have I know I explained "how" to move in the being kajira thread) but unless you know the specifics of your dominants desires conserning what he wants all I could do is discuss the general basics.

His participation would still be required...he would still have to express his desires conserning what he liked and did not like etc. Does he want you to flirt subtley? Or more overt? Brazeingly and wanton...or passive enticment as if your innocent of the desires your urging on...or perhaps some kind of combination of all that and more depending upon the situation as some are required to do?

There is almost an endless number of ways to be a slut. Hence the need for him and you to have a discussion of some kind.