Advice to a submissive on proper attitude and thinking.

[ks17]

I agree completely. I serve my Master without question, but that doesn't make me any less independent. When I'm honest with myself and my Master I go against His wishes when I am looking for attention, usually in the form of punishment. He understands this. There's nothing wrong with me being independent and spirited in His eyes as long as I am not disrespectful or dishonest with him. Anyway, in answer to your question, I think whether the behavior is right or wrong really depends on the Dom/Master and what He/She expects from you.

[silver_one {Leaman}]

I agree completely. I serve my Master without question, but that doesn't make me any less independent. When I'm honest with myself and my Master I go against His wishes when I am looking for attention, usually in the form of punishment. He understands this. There's nothing wrong with me being independent and spirited in His eyes as long as I am not disrespectful or dishonest with him. Anyway, in answer to your question, I think whether the behavior is right or wrong really depends on the Dom/Master and what He/She expects from you.

Ks,

Thank you. I've really had a terrific eye opener since I joined this site, my whole attitude about a D/s relationship has changed, I agree that in part it's up to your Master, but in truth, isn't it an agreed upon, unique to each of your personalities, tolerence of behaviors?
Am I still heading the right way?