I don't know why things go wrong tbh.
Sometimes ive just had the Domme just never get in contact with me again no matter if I message them.
I had one who had personal problems (Which I understood completely and still do)
Some were not strict enough with me. I can be quite a brat, and they just let me get away with it.
Once one asked me to do something (Not outside my limits or anything) and I argued and.. I won. Sometimes I just do that to lose an argument. I fully admit that this time I was just testing her, seeing how far I could push her. But I won.. so yeah. When a dominant tells me to do something as long as its inside my limits they should make me do it. Thats just what i like. And like I said, I can be a bit of a brat.