Hello andpostkdp
I remember you coming into chat and it was busy at the time. I always feel sad when people come in for the first time when it is like that, can be so daunting - I remember it well. It does get much easier as you get to know people, so you might wish to consider returning one day. Just seeing names you have met here should make it easier, and if I am there, please do not hesitate to whisper to me.
Having said all that - forums are wonderful, fun and even educational. The vast majority of the people could not be more friendly or helpful and I am sure you soon find your feet here.
Take care, and enjoy
cariad