My boy has had anxiety problems, though he's never been officially diagnosed with anything. To me, that's just part of who he is as a whole person, and I do my best to understand this part of him just like all his other personality traits. He has "tells" that let me know he's about to have an anxiety attack, and because I can recognize them I can help him by either changing or removing him from the situation, or at least encourage him through it; but I could not do this if I didn't know what was going on for him. It is my job as his Domme to know him inside and out, and it would be necessary for your partner to know this about you, if you want to have a meaningful, healthy, trusting relationship with them. And I would hope that that partner would help you and support you in striving for a healthy, happy life in which you can both mutually grow together.