This site can not provide legal advice, nor can members provide legal advice to other members through the site. This is to protect both the members of the site and the site from any potential legal actions. So... in answer to your question... no one here would be able to provide you with the sort of "legal advice" you are seeking. (Note: any members posting legal information here or below will have their posts subject to edit by the Administration in accordance with this guideline).

However... that being said... I think the best idea is always "exercise caution." There are a lot of threads on our site that discuss first meetings, how to exercise the best safety measures you can to protect yourself, and how to have a successful relationship. I hope you will check those threads out.

In the meantime, welcome to the site, and hopefully you will find a lot of helpful threads here!