
Originally Posted by
Jennifer Williams
Text messaging is a beautiful, beautiful thing. When my sub finds himself faced with a decision that he has rules about and I'm not there for him to defer to me, he texts me and waits for my answer, and there you go, instant control. You can even simply require her to update you on her status all day (like twitter but texting only to you), and the simple fact of you knowing what she's doing (while she doesn't know what you're doing) adds a feeling of her being controlled.