Rough sex for me has always meant emotionally and humiliatingly rough. There have to be elements of "being used", of resignedly taking it, while revelling in the dark animalistic athmosphere. Physical overpowering by the dom, light but humiliating face slaps, rude dragging to a place where to be fucked - without some of these, anal, for instance, is just physically uncomfortable and/or painful. Being placed on all four, but feet in the air to be stroken with a small rod , while being taken rudely the doggy style is niccccce . And at every jerk of the head from pain in the feet or elsewhere, to hear "Head DOWN"! .....