Quote Originally Posted by Jennifer Williams View Post
...the little subs are who are in control! Being a Domme is such hard work, because you have to give them what they need, what they want, what they crave- all the while under the illusion that it is really what You want and what You crave.
I don't doubt that the subs have a lot of control over a caring Domme and that being the dominant in a relationship is the harder of the two positions. But for the Domme to have to project an illusion to satisfy the wants and needs of the submissive sounds like a mismatched couple. By selling an illusion, the Domme is betraying what should be the sub's primary concern; satisfying the needs and wants of the Domme.