Hi!
When I first started to explore this side of myself, I thought I was a domme. That was because I always loved the thought of giving pain to my partner. I've recently learned that it's not so much that I want to dominate, but rather, to just inflict pain. I still like to dominate sometimes, but it is not something I feel like I need on a regular basis. I've also learned that I like receiving pain as well, and I've been having a lot of fantasies as a sub lately. I'm not sure what that makes me. A sadomasochist that likes to dominate once in awhile and also thinks it's super hot when someone dominates me? lol