True enough delia, for many situations. But how about the monog who never was exposed to or tried poly? People don't change, but they do learn and experience.

There are a lot of things I didn't like as a kid that I like now. Tastes change. Preferences change. So for many, life is a learning experience. Now... if having tried something, I don't like it, nothing will get me to change. You are right.

But if I like it better than what I was used to, yeah, I just might change my mind.

Quote Originally Posted by delia
Now, when do you talk about this? UP FRONT. It should be discussed before limits are discussed. I would argue poly/monog isn't a limit. I'd argue it isn't part of the kink/fetish discussion. I'd argue it almost tails into the vanilla discussion, closer to the "hi, I'm a sub, and I'm _________ [monog/poly]."
Pretty much exactly what I also said earlier. Just a couple of nits I was picking.