Sounds to me like he is out for one thing. I would be concerned about this....unless you are only in it for play, and I would still be concerned. If you are looking for a Dom or Master, you better get to know him pretty well. Remember, you will be trusting this person to tie you up and do things to your body. Think. Once you are tied up, how much control over the situation will you have?

IMHO, if he is a good Dom, training would not be a priority for him. getting to know you, finding out if you have been mistreated in the past, making sure you are comfortable with him....among other things, would be first on his list.

It is just like any other relationship. Just remember, you are placing yourself in a dangerous situation.