Shrugs,, bdsm was around long before this "feminism" thing. I suspect it will be around long after it as well.

Heck the words dom and domme are old Roman terms. One of the earlists examples of bdsm we have in the written form that addressess the D/s dynamic directly (other than vague refernces in hierogliphs and legal cuniform descriptions) comes in a love poem/letter written by a roman male submissive of senetorial rank to his domina.

Personally I have no problem in refusing to conform with the curent political correct dogmas and liberal educational agendas of such as its being force-fed to society.

I dont care what "ism" you wish to use, it has little bearing on things when your on your knees holding a whip between your ass crack and desperately trying to please your dominant with oral sex or perhaps licking his or her feet or perhaps a boot; the reality of the situation then is quite simple.

If your a self professed feminist and you wish to "justify" your inner needs for submission, feel free, go right ahead, it makes no difference what kind of twist you wish to give it or what level of sophistry you wish to use. Window dress it all you want to yourself to make you feel better or not at your lieasure.

Besides all the "isms" in the world dont matter a hoot when your choking on a cock balls deep in your mouth while your tied squirming near orgasm on a sawhorse.