well it is more the couple weeks i guess that wasnt completely accurate... and he didnt lie about her he just failed to mention her... yes i know it sounds like im an idot. right now im more concerned about her then him anyways sooo i wouldnt even dream of a poly family because it wouldnt be for the right reasons at all and i would never be happy... i guess my real issue is making him stop with out him thinking i did it because of her because i know he will assume it was her fault...