Valid points Archeon !
Thanks for caring enough to ask
We known each other forever but are “us” only about 6 month! Did I know before the contact and why did I not negotiate? ? Yes, he was very clear about what was expected of me and no there are things that he will not be budged from (talk about old school)!! I always have the choice of saying no and leave ( as if I would)!
How am I able to cope in life with a shaved head? I always am able to cope and he is very aware of that (I am rather good being unusual)
Having said that, I do understand were you are coming from and thanks again for being concerned, I am 42 years old I have been always different, people expect it of me!
I am in no way shape or form a victim here but fuck ….my hair!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i am sure its a girl thing!