What I am looking for personally/intimately/professionally would be different then anyone else on this forum, as someone stated above so I am going to list some of the things I am looking for in a Dom and possibly a subbie male (I am not switch, just a subbie who likes to top). Dont believe in Switches but thats for another post and I wont go into detail on that anyway....

Traits I am looking for in a partner:
1. Honesty
2. Commuication
3. Ability to be true to themselves
4. Some who's able to take care of himself, because if he cant take care of himself then he cant take care of me.
5. Possibly another DaddyDom, and I like sissybois. NOt together as i stated I want my Dom a Dominant through and through, my sissy i want him to be a sissy in his bdsm life, but beable to treat me like the princess I am...actually i want both to treat me like a princess!
6. Someone out going, someone willing to go out with me to bdsm events.
7. Something longterm and i would want him to be honest about what he wants.
8. I also want someone educated, I need to be able to speak with him about worldy events, I am not the smartest book on the shelf but I want to be able to talk with him.

Traits I would run away from:
1. Someone who can only come online a few times out of the week, but doesnt give you a reason behind it.
2. Someone whos not totally honest with you. Sometimes we can feel when something isnt right.
3. Someoen who thinks because his nick is "mrdomman" that he gets to dominant me, or i get to suck his cock. nay!
4. Someone whos not looking to learn something new. He has to be willing to try new things, be willing to let me try things, go out and find my own life outside of him while being with him.
5. Someone who talks in that text speak. LOL
6. A person whos not in my class of men. That may sound alittle concided to some but we have to realize our self worth, or we'll take any piece of meat that comes our way!
7. Someone whos not willing to communicate with me and that would go for both. If i had a Dom or if i get me a subbie.
8. Someone who says one thing but does something else...(like Guera stated) That gets tiresome I want someone who wants what he wants and knows what he wants.

Thats my list, there are a few things there that others might be able to use or be able to tailor it for themselves but its pretty general.
I would try to stay clear of someoen who doesnt realize how good he has it by being with someone whos will to submit or willing to top! (ok thats abit concided LOL)