My Owner/husband and I both know each others passwords etc but....Last time I checked the site itself cautions against the sharing of passwords etc, and for good reason too.

Many a person (ussually a naive sub) has shared such things only to have it bite them in the backside later.

Again I ask, is this an online only psuedo dom or a real life one you have known for many years in real life who has proven themselves to you through actual real life actions to be trustworthy?