hahahaha... i can't count how many times my mother has called me when i'm in the middle of being tied up. my phone is always on vib, because i'm too lazy to get ringtones. (one time my friend decided to tease me with the phone when i kept getting a huge amount of texts.)

But about "porn bondage", they're only showing you what is "pretty"/eye pleasing (thank god for edit buttons). i'm a bondage model and the first time it was like: wow is this really what it's like? i have fun whenever i get tied up, but when i'm working it's me being serious and focusing on showing myself/the ropes as good as i can. i do not hit subspace, i do not cum, i do just focus on what sells.

i get to have "fun" and tell Him to go fuck Himself, He's fucking crazy, ect. and not worrying about the D/s part of bondage. But the point is, even with those making clips and doing photos for sale. . . those girls are having the same issues that you are. We stop and readjust, i answer my phone and say: mother i'm busy right now, HANGING out with my friends.

Only difference is when the calls, pee breaks, smoke breaks happen we hit pause on the flim and fix it, then go on. Ya can't really hit pause on real life scenes.

~j~