Quote Originally Posted by good_girl View Post
When I first read this question my immediate thought went to because he lets me be that part of myself that none have ever let me before…..but that’s so not right.

The fact is when we started out I didn’t take things all that seriously, we were two people who had a common interest and our paths crossed, neither of us really expected it to last all that long but we decided to just enjoy it while it lasted. In all honesty, back then I wanted desperately to submit to someone and he seemed a fitting candidate…he let me. Yes I know how bad that sounds and I wouldn’t have gone with just anyone who let me but he was different right from the beginning.

Now I look at things very differently, he is my Dom not only because he lets me submit to him, I know now that had that been the only thing then things wouldn’t have lasted as they have.

He is my Dom because;
-there is no doubt in my mind that he knows better than I do what I need from him.
-He never forces me to do what I’m not ready to do.
-He has proven to me that he is always there for me even if he can’t be here with me.
-He knows my fears and is always there for me when I’m ready to face them.
-He can create excitement in me but more so he can create calm in me.

There have been other relationships in my past where I have felt a desire to please my partner before myself, but this is the first time there is no selfish motivation behind it, I don’t need anything from him that he isn’t already giving me, he makes me truly happy and that’s why he is my Dom.
Are you sure you aren't my long lost twin?

I hadn't posted in this thread because I just couldn't find the right words. Thanks, good_girl, for finding them for me.