Quote Originally Posted by rachaelhayley View Post
I recently had an interesting experience of being collared and bound in a Masters bed whilst he slept. it wasn't for a whole night (as he had fetched me quite late) and it wasn't unmolested which made it much easier. but with my arms cuffed behind my back i found it very uncomfortable and had problems with my arms going to sleep and being quite painful in a very unpleasant manner. not wanting to displease him or let my self down. i endured as best as i could and refused in myself to ask him to release me.

once he had woken up and played with me a little he had me restrained in his house for 4 hours with my wrist attached to my ankles while he went to work. although far less uncomfortable i did not enjoy being left alone and felt abandoned especially as when he came back he had me showered and fed and then sent home. i felt like i had done something wrong.
I haven't known him long and this was only my second experience with him and i haven't had any prior experience. is it normal to go through so many emotional ranges?
The emotions are usual in that sort of situation.

I'm surprised he bound you with your wrists behind you overnight - especially since you haven't been together long (at least I assume that from the tone of your post). That posture can lead to issues - and if he doesn't know your bodily responses (and doesn't seem to if he wasn't aware of your discomfort) you can suffer harm. He would likely find more satisfaction - and it would be easier on you - if he chained/bound you in a semi-spread posture which allows you some movement.

Leaving you chained while he's out is damned dangerous - what happens if there's a fire?

Sigh - if you are uncomfortable - talk to him - communication is vital. And that goes for both physical and mental discomfort