submisives they become or they are born with it?

[good_girl]

I have allways liked to think of it like this:

We are all born with different qualities that in some cases and situations etc make us more or less submissive or dominant than in others.

For example mothers and fathers are often dominant over thier children.

The police officer who pulls me over for speeding is holding at least temporary dominance over me (or any one else that gets pulled over lol).

When teaching class at school I am dominant over my students.

When kneeling before my Owner He is dominant over me.

I like how you put this, very concise and to the point but it does raise this question...why do some choose to find a partner who is dominant over them when they could look for a partner who is submissive to them? This I believe is the original question and this I believe is where our nature comes into play.