SM = Sex Magic?

[denuseri]

We use a varity of mantras and meditaions as well as many functional practices that enhance our experience in a manner that resembles somthing like what your talking about buDdha.

The following is taken from an earlier thread I started on being kajira.
here is a link to it>

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...ad.php?t=15978

As you can see from this qoute our practice of bdsm incorperates a great deal of spiritual importance on our relationship dynamic.


"Obedience

this is perhaps one of the most important and symbolic positions of my servitude and i am honnored to have the previlage of preforming it

Regardless of what ever position i was in, i gracefully move to kneel before my owner and streatch forth sliding unto my belly placeing the side of my face on the ground just infront of his feet, my hands to eaither side of my head (palms up), my tail will be rather high as i keep my lower legs where they were, arching my back.

i then silently plead with my trembeling body perhaps softely mewing my eyes looking up at Him in adoration, when and if he chooses to acknoledge me, i tentativly reach forth and guilde His right foot to rest upon my head and neck and place my hands behind my back with the wrists crossed as if bound

This is the sacred ritual of female obedience, beneath his full wieght i would be crushed, it is symbolic of more than just my free submission to him, it is a proffering of my very life to his will,
the signifigance is not only the physical aspects of his greater strength, but the mental and spiritual relationship between a Master and his kajira, under the full wieght of his dominance i would easily be crushed like a flower by a fist,

in placing my total trust , love and devotion in him, i have crossed the line between being a submissive and entered that of a full pleasure slave bound by my Masters will, i am his property and completely at his mercy,....

............................ in the preformance of this ritual of full obedience before him i am truely "being kajira"."

I often feel a tantric sort of euphoric trancendence when I am envolved in many of the aspects of our way of bdsm. From the first mantras of the day I preform to the special sessions we have in the evenings after a long day there exists a certian type of zen so to speak. Alltough we don't really think of what we do as a religion so much as a philosophy, I suppose in retrospec that it has a lot of areas for us that overlap from one wold of experience into the other (vanillia to bdsm, philospophy to spiritual etc etc).

[buDdha]

I've never heard of kajira before, but the description was fascinating for me. Thanks to everyone for your responses. Today I've been thinking that I'm not as tuned into the dhamma as I want to be these days. Ok, call it whatever you want; it's that feeling of knowing what the right thing to do is. I don't always have it, but in terms of food and sleep and work and workingout and meditating, I usually have a pretty good impulse that I often ignore. I think of acetics, not that that's my cup o', and I'm more than a little envious about the wholeheartedness of that submission.

But that's another thread, perhaps. One reason I ask you all about the sex-magic think is because of a strange occurance. About 9 years ago this time of year, I started sleeping with this guy, who was my one and only serious kinkster. I was not his primary girlfriend, but nonetheless, I felt like our time together was transcendent, for lack of a better word. Not to be cheesy. But there was an amazing altered space I had with him, and nothing I can do can get it out of my head. And, I saw him for the first time in years last September, and he randomly gave me a book on wiccanism, which isn't my cup o' tea or his either, but there was a chapter on sex-magic, and I started wondering.

You all have mentioned intensity and devotion; are there any other aspects between bdsm and spirit, however defined?

Have we had only subs respond?