wow, what an interesting thread you started Kay. I sympathise with you, as I share part of your problem. I have never cum from penetration, I do however enjoy some fantastic orgasms with toys or just by my hand alone. (My husband loves to watch me cum although he still thinks its quite abnormal only to cum this way). The thing which really vexes me is that no matter how much I am stimulated by my Master I have never cum for him. I spend hours literally on the edge, my whole body crying out for release, but find it only ever happens hours maybe, after we have parted. My Master has never mentioned that he has any problem with this but I wish I could cum for him more than anything in the world. (Sometimes I wonder if its guilt - my husband doesnt know that I see my Master? Who knows how the human mind/body react to such emotions) but know, Kay, that we all have our problems where sex is concerned - let no-one tell you that their sex-life is absolutely perfect because if they do they are liars. Jeanne hit the nail on the head with her comments about not being self-conscious about your looks or body as your Master chose you and therefore wants you as you are, not as you wish you were! and Craven as always imparts wisdom as he goes - try to relax and become comfortable with who you are (easy to give advice and not so easy to follow - i know that from experience, lol) but hopefully with the advice from all the helpful people above who have posted replies, and patience on you and your Masters part your goal will be reached. Much luck to you Kay x