Ive been trying that, and yes she is a painslut. I know this already. And have told her that I will gladly beat her without the need for disobeying and that disobeying is bad etc. I have used pain as a reward with her even. But...and this is part of the problem. I cant find any punishment for her persay. If I take something away, she views it as me taking control of her and she likes it. I cant hurt her, she likes it. etc. I can not punish her suitably. So while she knows the rewards, the punishment is something that she is far from afraid of. btw everyone. I get quite bored so I usualy just look around on the internet and always end up here...hence why I reply alot.