1. There is going to be NO bitching about people--Doms or otherwise. Esp. not by name. We aren't getting into that crap.

2. Concerns re: identifiers. I am not a big jumper-upper (is that even a phrase?) on labeling people. BUT... there is a purpose here to doing so, and it will be held to. As I mentioned, in the future, if there is a need for another type of area, and more people come forward, we can discuss it... but if you look at the Dominant's Dungeon/Sub Couch/Switch Chaisse & look at the convos in them, I think you will see why maybe starting w/female subs isn't a bad idea.

The notion that we're exclusive... yes. It would be to some degree. Is it discriminatory? Yes. But the effects & purpose justify the means--it's rational, proportional & shows congruence. If you don't "fit" into the female sub category, but would want entrance, that is something you & I could discuss in PM. I am not an unreasonable person (though I am sure some would disagree! *LAUGHS*)-- if you can tell me why you would benefit from it, and why you want in, we'll talk.