huni, im so sorry for you having to go thru this, it must be heartbreaking. but i have to agree with Ladymad, sometimes u have to be selfish and put yourself first.

as a mum, i know how easy it is to neglect urself, but life is too short for regrets....

make sure this is what YOU want, if ur husband is the right one for u then work at ur relationship, let it grow, but if there are ANY doubts then huni, only u can make that decision, no amount of advice will help...im speaking from experience.

as Ladymad says, u deserve to be happy too

hugs jez xxx