uhm, long story short, i'd say no. it's a definite no for me at least. just like you, i will go for the top head rather than the lower one *grins*.
but, seriously, why compromise? if you're one of those lucky people who _know_ what they want and what they're looking for, why give it up? why lower expectations?
i find what i'm saying oddly funny because i've thought of compromising countless times--but i need the challenge a strong mind can provide me with. I like to know that if one manages to corner me they did so completely on their own, no help from me whatsoever. Of course, that isn't always the case. Sometimes I persuade myself i didn't help them and sometimes i just don't bother to help or hinder because i know it won't go anywhere anyway.
At the end of the day, whether you compromise or not is completely up to you. I do think your submissive side knows what it wants, you just have to listen to it. I remember the first Dom i ever met, knowingly, in a sexual context was..uhm...how do i put it... Well. He wasn't my idea of a cute man. That aside, i wanted to pick his brain apart. The way he could twist my words into something that would get me blushing was incredible. A part of me still didn't want to be seen outside with him [no, i refuse to feel bad about this, it's true and healthy to not be attracted to any Dom physically] but oh boy, mentally he was orgasmic.
i suggest you take your time. play around [safely], look around, discuss, and ask yourself if you want to submit to the first hunk that comes your way or to somebody who has more to offer than [good old] sex