words, actions or both?

[sinderella]

If this was a vanilla relationship I would say that you are getting in way too deep, way too fast

why waste time? i don't meter my feelings, and i don't temper His feelings or actions when He is with me or talking with me, i just let them flow. i follow my feelings and His directions, wherever He leads me. i am a pebble on His beach, and He knows that. and i am willing to accept whatever comes because i do love Him.

- can you really love someone in such a short space of time?

yes. love has a beginning and will spark when it will, and has no timetable. the degree of love increases or decreases over time. and He loves me too, because He said so.

Do you have friends (lifestyle or vanilla), a job, family?

of course i do, although i am only just now making friends in the 'lifestyle', as you put it, in this forum. i do not love someone because i need a diversion, or have an empty life.

Perhaps you need to pull back a bit and concentrate on your Master as part of your life rather than the be-all and end-all. Dom or not it must be hard to be the repository of someone's entire life especially if he has a hectic business life.

don't trouble yourself, i have already pulled back a bit until i can be with Him again and talk to Him about it. and nothing i say or do, according to Him, is unwelcome...He has told me that He wants to know every thought, and hear everything i have to say, and it is not hard for Him - if it were, He would tell me, and if He does, of course i will respect it. but if He tells me to not hinder myself in any way, then i won't. i want to please Him and see nothing wrong with that, and He is not the kind of man to keep His wishes unspoken.

Good luck chick.

thanks very much.