(wonders why some people bother to post if thier not going to help)

Hey Rose, hugs of empathy from a fellow submissive

I know just what your talking about boo,

Sometimes one needs a little time just for themselves. A smart dominant will be very accomadating in that regard and even help you to preserve that identity of self devilishsub is talking about (nice one sisa winks).

If the focus is only on his desires, it does speak volumes about him, the word selfish comes to mind.

One would think a dominant would want you to thrive in your submission wouldnt one? How can you serve him if he never serves you?

Only a fool plants a garden and then dosnt make sure it gets watered.

I reccomend you sit down and have a nice long conversation with him, after all communication is the key to any relationship, vanilla or otherwise.

The road of dominantion and submission is a two way street, paved with mutual respect and consern, for each other.

Be strong my sister!!!

Hugs and kissess
denuseri





feel free to pm me or any of the staff if you need help, we are allways willing to lend a hand