I'm not belittling anyone. That's the last thing I'm doing. I just expected more. I just don't like how if something deals with sex, things have to be ALL about sex. Since a lot of people go to bars to hook up, bars are labeled as places to hook up with people. Heaven forbid someone would actually want to go in a bar just to be social with friends and have a drink or two. Sure, one might find a nice guy or girl to be friends with (that could develop into more) by chance but does that always have to be the driving force? I'd love to find a Dom but I'm not pouring through profiles trying to scope out one. I sit back. Relax. Have a conversation or two. Just so happen to run into someone who is fun to talk with (about non-sexual things). Become their friend. Get to know them over a course of a few days. Maybe we move on to the topic of BDSM.

But there I go dreaming again.