Quote Originally Posted by Walker_In_The_Wild View Post
DesertDom did bring up a good point, and I understand and agree with his logic, but I do have a counter argument:
Yes, if you’re on a sports forum people will likely bring it up as an ice-breaker, but you’re dealing with a non-personal subject.

If you’re on a dating forum, talking to someone for the first time, bdsm forum, you’re on a very personal subject, and that subject does deserve at least a little respect.

I really don't consider this a dating forum. To me, it is a bdsm themed forum in which the 'personals' section is presented as a small subset of the overall forum. There are also stories, images, experiences. etc sections. All bdsm themed, personals, again is just a small piece of the overall pie.

And given the overall suggestive nature ( the ads, images, etc) of every page that is viewed, some will get the impression that anything goes. I understand why the ads are there, but personally I feel that the site owners have gone way too far with them and have learned to simply ignore them. They don't make any click-through money on me. Side topic, I digress.

bambina, it isn't just men who promote the quick orgasms here, I get approached at least once a day via private message or during chat from a woman (or a man pretending to be a woman) wanting to get it on, so to speak. I just tell them, I don't have time right now and move on.
Then there are those who come here for the quick orgasm and they keep coming back , so their needs must be met.

It's not one size fits all. So, it would probably be best if you decide to hang around to develop a response strategy for those whose interests don't fall in line with yours. It just isn't worth getting upset.