wellcome to the site
we are so very happy to have you here, the forums are full of great information, as well as having a very nice personels section and chatroom
your situation all depends on you and her, comunicate show her its not all about perversion and sadomasicism, if she still rejects it then you are in a quandary
feel free to pm any of the staff or myself with conserns or questions, we are more than willing to lend a hand
hope to see more of you soon
have lots of fun exploring the site
hugs and kissess
denu