What a good question, I can not answer since I do not have a Dom *grin* BUT can say this, I piss my subs of often, as they do me.I think that is only natrual in any type of relationship, to me it isn't in the pissing off, but in the what follows that matters. If the relationship is healthy, and you want to keep it healthy, then communication is the key. AFTER you(both) have cooled off, then you should sit down and talk about what and why you are pissed,discuss how to eleviate the situation and perhaps reduce the risk of it reoccuring.If I am in the wrong I will appoligise, if the sub has made a valid point, and it is one I agree with , I will do my best to try to not have the incident happen again.....~Wyked~