afterwards i generally have that cat that got the cream feeling and just want to lay curled in a ball all snug and cosy drifting away ..sounds tacky but thats how i feel.
IH also wants to clear everything up almost immediately which bugs me at times lol but he usually does it as if its been a long session he knows im a bit drained and makes sure i rest a little.
he also depending on what we've been doing does the talking and questioning thing which i absolutely hate!!! i find that difficult at the best of times never mind when im still in fantasy land *g* we tend to leave all that until later on and only if he feels its neccassary generally when we've tried something new or taken something a lot further, but i still find it hard.
i dont know about feeling more energetic the next day but i do feel sore,aching burning and bruised.
i love looking at the marks remembering what we did,how it felt and enjoy touching,prodding and nipping just to make it hurt a little bit more