Well said, and thanks. For me it's a question of channelling a secret sub-text of sexuality into a full expression and removing the repressive and moralistic aspects from my thoughts and emotions. I'm pretty well along that path through reading and contemplation. I feel I'm at a stage where some experimentation is needed.

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Welcome back from the dead.

Ask yourself how it is not giving to take what your partner would want you to have. Think about the pleasure they will receive in willingly serving you, how they trust you enough to give themselves completely to you and how you will treat the gift of self they present to you.

Here you will see how you will satisfy, giving them as well as yourself what you crave.