Okay, here I go. *giggles* In my opinion, society has placed too much emphasis on weight - both over and under. When the government can go into schools and dictate what a child's BMI has to be in order to move on to the next grade - ummmm starts too many children, who may have some baby fat, to obsess and I don't think that's mentally healthy at all.
I was never skinny, but curvey, with rounded hips and full-sized breasts. I was proportionate, but more importantly, I was healthy and that's what mattered to me. I exercised regularly (just so I could eat the foods I loved lol) and, therefore, was solid.
To me, this form is quite sexy; however, I know men who like the flat-chested, thin as a rail girls and I wonder if they wouldn't be happier with a little boy. lol. Okay, don't get your panties in a twist, it was a joke.
Still, when I wrap my arms around someone to give a hug, I want something to wrap my arms around and can't stand being jabbed by bones. I have a friend just that skinny and everytime I hug her, I feel she's gonna break lol
Too skinny, too fat. Neither are healthy. But I question how anyone can determine what a particular weight should be for a particular height. We're all different and if we're healthy, dammit, that's all that matters.