Quote Originally Posted by ~kay~ View Post
I've been with Him for about 2 months. He's made a few comments about how I generally have a hard time "cumming": when we play. He's said more than once that it may have something to do with me not having been in a relationship for a few years. I don't know if this is normal. I have fun when we;re together but have only cum a few times since.

Not sure if this is normal. If its just because he's quite a bit older. If maybe its because Im self concious around him, being so new to this....any thoughts?
OK, I've kept quiet until now, but I just want to say that a woman's having trouble coming is NOT a disfunction and I think it's a disservice to yourself to tell yourself that it is. Certainly you should not let anyone else tell you that.

Like lots of other things that you do with your body, it can take practice, and the right conditions, and the right mindset - so of course it's good to consider those things, but telling yourself that you're not "functioning" right is untrue and unhelpful.

You're fine.