Set them aside mostly. But its not as doomed as that sounds - I hope. The issues were mine to begin with and I decided that I would rather be with him in this way without a defined relationship to the outside world than not be with him. And I'm really happy...
And if the day comes that has his life in a better spot and this is still all he wants, I might reconsider but for now its enough.![]()
But thanks for your concern.
Thanks everybody for your sweet words, thanku!!