it doesnt neccassarily mean your lesbian or bi! kind of confusing i know lol but i am turned on by pics of women in bondage and not men, im also turned on by the idea of and would happily have a woman Dom/me me if IH was present, but not involving any actual sexual contact...and yes i do know for sure that im ''straight'' because i lived with a woman for 6 yrs and had prior to that been involved with both men and women concurrently, however that r/ship ended because i no longer wanted sex with women or found them sexually attractive.

its kind of like people who are turned on by watching or fantasising over s/m but wouldnt actually go any further than a little spanking or fluffy cuffs...it doesnt mean their sadists, masochists, Dom/mes, or subs its just what floats their boat.