I've known plenty of men who wanted to be dominated by a woman, but since one wasn't available (good Dommes being notoriously scarce), they'd settle for me. Mostly they swore they were straight, and I believed them: they were turned on by dominants, gender was secondary.
That is amazingly hot to me.
I love myself, I want you to love me
When I feel down I want you above me
I search myself, I want you to find me
I forget myself, I want you to remind me.