Does the label matter?
i am a girl.
i was in a 9 year relationship with another girl.
i am now in a MUCH better relationship with a female Dom.
am i a lesbian?
i once would have said so...and did. Now i don't. i am tecnically bi, but really i have no need for labels. My sexuality is fluid. i love who i love for themselves not because of the anatomy on the outside.
Don't let the world label You if You don't want to be labeled. Be fluid and happy with the knowledge that it is nobodies business but Your own. If You don't believe You are one..then You aren't. Simple as that.
*hugs*
and don't worry...sexuality is a hard thing to define. Dom women...sub under men, whatever makes You happy. Have fun and enjoy life how You see fit!