I completely agree.. well said bro

While you consider these things to be your "old school" way of executing in the BDSM world. I think I would consider it the foundation. I very much revert to these ideals in most any situation, but am open to and practice a lot of the other aspsect, but I find that the further from the foundation ideals of respect (her's mostly) the lest I am inclined to them. Still open to them, just less inclined..