The Perfect Collar for me is the one I have! It was just put on 3 days ago and I have been in a state of total bliss since then. It's simple, comforatable and I can sleep in it. Everytime he tugs the leash thats attached to it I nearly lose my mind I get so wet.
We are in the market for a nice choker to wear in public. In the meantime I have to hang up my Collar on my rear view mirror when I leave the house.
It's raised some eyebrows to say the least. I have a neck fetish, and LOVE when he grabs my throat. Now it feels like his hand is around it at all times. Sweet sweet happiness.